In today’s society, the most popular theme that has gained momentum is that there are no differences between genders. What can be done by a man can be equally accomplished by a lady! And I also know that most of you would agree with the above quote. Well, just hold your thoughts guys, as the big difference creeps in only when the lady gets pregnant. It’s during this period that people actually realize that after all, there is a starched clear cut marked difference.
The obvious reason being that a women have to protect and grow the baby for nine months while her husband just has to watch from outside. However, the role of the husband is just not restricted to only watching alone! As a husband I am sure that you can do a lot better than that and to help you, go through the following article.
Be Empathetic And Understanding
A lot of guys do find the whole concept of pregnancy to be baffling, mind boggilng or bewildering. You may feel that you have no role to play and you may even think of backing away by keeping silent. But guys you’r absolutely wrong! This is time that your wife needs your support, warmth, care, love and affection the most. Try to make an effort to understand what exactly she’s going through, be it physical or emotional. The most important thing that you can do is take loads of stress off her. Trust me; she will really love you for this.
Read Books On Pregnancy Or Books On The New Arrival
The more information and knowledge you gather on what your wife is actually going through, the better equipped you can be to support and help her out. Just by spending some time on the internet, you can enrich your knowledge on the different stages of pregnancy, the symptoms of pregnancy, and what are the likely hurdles that your wife may encounter during her pregnancy process. Well another wonderful idea to show that you really care for her would be to read to her such kind of books. In that way both of you would be aware of the pregnancy signs, symptoms and what are the solutions to symptoms.
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Escort Her To Doctor’s Appointments
However busy you may be, make sure that you accompany her to the doctor. This will make her understand that you are always at her side during her pregnancy. This will also help you to understand the stage of pregnancy your wife is in and what are the preventive measures that are to be taken. And you will experience the most wonderful memorable feeling in your life, just by seeing your baby’s hands and legs move around in the womb during the time of ultra sound. This would further strengthen the child – father relationship.
Compliment Her Every Minute
This a time when your wife would be very much worried of her voluminous figure or her round belly that’s expanding due to child growth. A simple thing that you can do without much difficulty is to flatter her with quotes that would emphasize on her looks and beauty. A simple praise about her eyes or face is more than enough to boost her confidence and to keep her smiling throughout.
Another most important point is listening to her and having an enormous level of patience. Even though she may not have literally anything to say, but just by expressing your willingness to listen to her along with a warm caring hug would surely make her feel at ease.